Archive for April, 2009

Fed Suppliers = Happy Suppliers

Wednesday, April 29th, 2009

Recently I was browsing Sasha Souza’s wonderful blog when I discovered an article on feeding your suppliers. I thought it was a great post and useful for both brides and planners alike.

As a rule I say suppliers there for less then 4 hours should have a drink and light snack if over lunch time, i.e a sandwich & cake. If a supplier is working longer then 4 hours then they should have a hot meal. The caterer should be able to provide this easily and a fraction of the guest cost, i.e a supplier certainly does not need 3 courses the one will suffice!

I did smile at Sasha reference to bands as its so true, I also make a point of setting up a rest area for the band with soft drinks & biscuits to stop them hovering at the bar, incidentally I also make it clear soft drinks only for all suppliers.

Please do read Sasha’s tips for further information.

Member Focus: Tiffany Grant-Riley

Monday, April 27th, 2009

Today we welcome Tiffany Grant-Riley of Grant-Riley Weddings to our regular Member Focus. Welcome Tiffany!

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Why did you become a wedding planner?

I had been working within the theatre and events industry for a few years under a management role and after getting engaged I became obsessed with weddings (as brides do!) Then I was made redundant and decided to go and do extra training in the wedding industry and before I knew it, I’d launched my own company.

What’s your USP?
I specialize in vintage wedding design from the 1920s to 1960s, whether the bride and groom want something historically accurate, or just a hint of their favourite era. I’m also more than happy to work with brides who would love a general shabby chic vintage style, but 20th century weddings are my passion.

What’s your signature dish?
I don’t really have a signature dish as such as each wedding I work on is completely bespoke and tailored to the individual. However, I love all the little details involved and spend a great amount of time and attention in getting them right.  Anything a little out of the ordinary always catches my eye too-I think the theatrical background is partly the reason for that!

Do you have a favourite venue?
A place very close to my heart is Pembroke Lodge in Richmond Park where we got married last year. Set in the heart of Richmond Park, this Georgian mansion gives you the scope to have a beautiful London wedding in the most serene and peaceful landscape, with deer hiding in the long grass.
I also think the Wallace Collection is a very special venue indeed, full of precious works of art and that stunning glass covered courtyard at the heart of it.

How would your clients describe you?

Dedicated, obsessed, wicked sense of humour, confident and creative. I’ve also been referred to as “the second mum” too.

Have you ever had a challenging client and how did you deal with it?

Up till now I’ve only had very easy going, relaxed clients, although one or two have been rather too laid back where making decisions were concerned. I had to plan one wedding within four months for a very busy professional couple and pinning them down could often be difficult, so I just had to prioritize the most important areas and we would work intensively over weekends until everything was completed. Had to be a hard task master but they thanked me for it in the end!

How do you unwind?
I love to cook with my husband, spend some time gardening or visiting stately homes pretending I live there! Chartwell (Churchill’s home) is a personal favourite as is Eltham Palace. There’s also a number of antique markets I enjoy pottering round adding bits and pieces to my collection.

If you could plan a celebrity wedding (alive or dead) whose would it be?
Keira Knightly would be a fantastic client although she’s a little young right now and don’t think she has any immediate plans for marriage! She has such style and has chosen some complex roles to work with. She’d suit a vintage wedding down to the ground and would look stunning in an Alice Temperley or Jenny Packham number (think Atonement!)

Is the job as glamorous as you thought?
Luckily I had no illusions that running my own planning business would be incredibly hard work. I’m used to long hours crawling around in the dark and the pressure of deadlines and budgets (thankfully!) so the transition was easy enough. What I found difficult was being on my own and as planners you’ll know how isolating your working life can be if you don’t have a business partner, which is why I try to network as much as I can.

Which wedding planner’s work do you respect/admire and why?
Some of the planners across the pond are amazing. They’re not afraid to try new concepts and colour schemes and the finished product is always fresh and unique. I very much admire Amy Atlas for her beautifully coordinated candy stations and little details. Maria Cooke of Ritzy Bee Events is a true inspiration-she has such an open and fresh approach to planning and I love to read her blog.

What themes are you working on for 2009?
As per usual it’s all about vintage-particularly this year as I’ll be working with one lucky bride and groom in conjunction with You & Your Wedding magazine and Luella’s Boudoir to create the ultimate vintage day. The venue, London’s Merchant Taylors Hall, lends itself beautifully to the theme so all we have to do now is wait to see what kind of vintage style the winners will have!

What’s your biggest achievement since launching?
Coming away from each wedding knowing the bride and groom had the time of their lives has been the most important achievement. Aside from that, becoming wedding coordinator to Luella’s Boudoir has been the greatest compliment.

What is your vice?
Chocolate. And winding myself up trawling property sites looking for my dream Tuscan farmhouse…maybe one day!

What trends are you seeing for 2009?
I’m seeing an increase in humanist ceremonies this year that allow greater freedom for couples wanting a truly personal ceremony in their chosen location. The colour yellow is also making a huge impact and works really well with shades of purple and green.

Don’t Believe The Hype

Friday, April 24th, 2009

In our training courses we try to emphasise how important PR is to a small business like a wedding planning business. It really can make the difference between success and closing your business down. So it is no surprise that some planners are better than others at promoting themselves. Some might say they are excellent at ‘creating the hype’!

Over time you will begin to see through the ‘hype’ no doubt rolling your eyes every time you see ‘award winning’, ‘UK best planner’ or my favourite ‘celebrity planner’. I remember attending a wedding conference where Siobhàn Craven-Robins was one of the speakers; she was introduced as ‘celebrity wedding planner’, Siobhan stood up and promptly said “I’m not a celebrity, I’m a wedding planner but yes I have planned weddings for celebrities”. This one sentence summed up why I respect Siobhàn as one of the leading planners in the UK. You won’t hear Siobhàn coming out with cheesy one liners!

There is so much negativity around at the moment with planners worried about where the next booking is coming from. It is understandable therefore then when they see certain planners featured in all the magazines or on the web they begin to believe what they see. Next time you attend a networking event and another planner tells you they have 20 weddings already confirmed for the year, smile sweetly and say that’s great. Then ask yourself ‘do you really believe what they have told you?’ We feel it’s important to keep a bit of cynicism when reading or hearing some hype in order to keep your sanity! Instead focus your energy on your own business and what steps you can take to gain more clients.

1.  What are your USPs?
2.  What benefits can you offer your clients?
3.  What are your strengths?
4.  Schedule time each week to implement PR
5.  Be pro active with your PR, using new strategies each month

What hype frustrates you? We’d love to hear your views.

Spring is Here!

Thursday, April 23rd, 2009

This morning we have a guest post from Lester Gethings, associate member of the UKAWP and owner of No 10. Wedding Design and Management.

I can now say that Spring is here… I know this because the Cherry Blossom tree in my garden is in full flower! The clocks have gone forward the days are getting longer and everywhere you look Spring flowers have started to show themselves in all their glory. So after visiting New Covent Garden Flower Market at the weekend with a client and, seeing so many beautiful flowers I was inspired to write about what is available for weddings at this time of year. If you are having a Spring wedding either this year or next, its a truly inspiring time where flowers are concerned. I always advise my clients to choose seasonal flowers wherever possible and do this by using what I call my QVC method!!!

Quality. Any flowers grown in their natural season will always be of better quality and stronger than their greenhouse equivalents.

Value for money. Buying seasonal flowers is a cost effective way of maximising your flower budget, therefore more flower to the pound!

Celebrate by buying seasonal flowers. You can celebrate in the knowledge that you will be supporting British growers, who produce the most amazing range of beautiful flowers that haven’t been flown half way around the world and don’t cost the earth, literally!

Some of my Spring favourites include Tulips in every conceivable colour,


fragrant Hyacinths delicate Lily of the valley,
blowsy little Ranunculas
and heavily perfumed Stocks,
to name but a few…

For further inspiration why not take a trip to New Covent Garden Market which is open daily to the public.

What Talents Do You Possess?

Wednesday, April 22nd, 2009

Do you have a hidden talent? Rather then keeping it to your chest tell people about it. Is it something that can be used as a benefit to clients? Maybe you have a transferrable hobby:

card making - maybe you could make the reception stationery
floral arranging - if your clients are cutting costs perhaps you could do simple table arrangements for them
dancing - suggestions for appropriate first dances

Being a wedding planner can be isolating at times so it is important to have other interests to revitalise yourself. So whatever your passion, don’t let it slip and don’t keep quiet about it. I know one planner who had trained as a counsellor so offers new clients a pre marriage session to talk about fears and dreams. One of our members (Elisabeth Sayer Weddings) is a colour expert so can advise clients what colours they should be using in their wedding.

You only have to watch Britain’s Got Talent to see how varied peoples skills and passions are. Some are good and some are bad. But perhaps you are like just like this very special lady.

Showcase Wedding: Dimples Events

Monday, April 20th, 2009

Today is the second in our installment of showcase weddings from members of the UKAWP. Today’s showcase is from UKAWP Full Member Simone Butterfield of Dimples Events. Take it away Simone!

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It was clear from my initial consultation with Katharine & Peter that their wedding day was going to test every skill I had as a Wedding Planner.  Their dream wedding day involved extending their property and leaving the first floor open plan to host their wedding reception for 70 guests.  “OK, so it’s not every day that your clients believe they can build their wedding venue as cheap as they can hire it, but we will give it a go!”  It was certainly going to be interesting.

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With 4 months till the big day and nothing of importance booked, we had a wedding to plan and reception to build…….There was a back up plan for every eventuality and we had to ensure that no matter what happened, Katharine & Peter were getting married on their chosen date.  Every meeting we had started with a progress update on the building and finished with a climb up the scaffolding!

Most weddings are well catered for at your chosen venue but when you are getting married at home – there is so much more to consider.  Even a marquee wedding seems easy in comparison!  I had many sleepless nights, followed by calls to Peter in the morning regarding “what if”.  We had to consider the fire regulations, the fire exits, and the entertainment license and more importantly what would we do if the 6ft round tables would not fit up the staircase, would the staircase be finished?  “Don’t worry, that’s easy – we’ll just take the windows out” replied Peter!

It was an experience I shall never forget, extremely hard work, yet the end results were amazing.

Katharine & Peter had a clear vision of their wedding design.  A chocolate brown theme with white and silver.  Crisp, clear, no fuss, no frills, simple, elegant and chic.

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The room for the wedding venue was assembled the day before with lots of help from reliable friends and family.  Katharine and her mother had set to work the day before lining the 2 walls of breeze blocks – they managed to drop lining paper from floor to ceiling and drape muslin over the top.  They worked tirelessly throughout the day and transformed the room.  The house was buzzing with craftsmen from the moment the scaffolding had been fixed until an hour before the guests arrived.  Electricians were setting up spot lights, luxury washroom facilities were being delivered and under cover canopies installed to keep the guests dry from the showers of rain!

With the help of “perfect table plan” we were able to accurately use the room measurements to assess how much space each table would occupy.  Setting up our table plan was made an easy task with the use of this software.  Had we not used this, it would have been unbearable.  We had even considered drawing out templates of the tables on the floor to judge the space!

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Once the tables were delivered and all in place, we were able to fix 3 glass orbs above each table.  Each carefully hung with a tea light burning inside.  Every table was dressed in crisp white linen with a simple centre piece.  A mirror box with hydrangeas and lots of lush green leaves.  Each table setting was even a leaf that had been beautifully written on by Peter’s mother, finished with silver ribbon.  Each chair had been carefully covered and dressed with a luxury organza bow in rich chocolate to match the bridesmaids’ dresses.

With the room dressed and the bridal party arriving at the church, it was my cue to leave the venue and head for the church.  It was also time for helping hands to make their way home – the rest was down to me.  One small problem, no-one wanted to go home, they all wanted to be given a job, just so that they could stay and see the finished result!

As the guests arrived at the reception, Katharine & Peter had been whisked off to a secret location for some exclusive shots with their photographer.  (Katharine even had a bespoke pair of pink Wellingtons made just for the muddy trek!)  The wedding guests were desperate to sneak upstairs and have a look at the transformation, but we were under strict instruction to keep them occupied!  Every guest was asked to write a short message upon a notelet and hang it from the branches of a twisted will tree which had been dressed with white phalanopsis orchids.  As the bride and groom returned and made their way upstairs it was the moment we had all been waiting for.  It was so deeply rewarding to hear the gasps of amazement as the guests took in the beauty of the room.

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With the wedding breakfast in full swing and the evening preparations being made, the next obstacle was to ensure the smooth room transformation for the first dance.  Katharine and Peter needed a space to be cleared to ensure that they could wow their guests with their choreographed first dance.

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Not only did Katharine and Peter leave their guests amazed by their first dance, they were all speechless at their wedding day achievements.  What seemed a straightforward “can you help me with my wedding preparations?” turned into an experience that I shall never forget.  Despite the exhaustion, hard work and many sleepless nights, this was one wedding to remember and definitely one to tell the grandchildren about!

Many thanks to Simone for telling us all about this fabulous wedding! If you are a UKAWP member and would like on of your weddings featured please contact us.

Photocredits: Amanda Harrison

WPE 09: The Video

Friday, April 17th, 2009

We’re delighted to be able to show short video highlights of our recent Wedding Planning Excellence Seminar (WPE 09). To view what we planners got up to watch the footage here.

Thank you to Mark at The Short Film Company for producing such a wonderful memory for us.

New Supplier: Options

Thursday, April 16th, 2009

Yesterday I attended a really lovely showcase held at the newly reopened Gymnasium Building opposite London Kings Cross Station.

The showcase was organised by Options, a very well established company operating mainly in France and Switzerland to date but just launching in the UK.  And what lovely products they have to hire! There were around 30 differently themed tables on display (a wedding planner’s dream) and their product range is vast covering quirky bar furniture to unusual and luxurious linens, napkin rings, glassware, cutlery, crockery, and a great range of classic and funky chairs. It was fabulous to see a completely new range of top quality products, a lot of which I hadn’t seen in the UK before – so do take a look at www.options.net for the full range.  I anticipate them doing well here.

Top Tips

Wednesday, April 15th, 2009

The UKAWP recently distributed a press release of top tips prepared by members for publication …..

How to prepare your guest list and seating plan

Guest List

“When compiling your evening guest list, take into account how far guests will need to travel. If guests need to travel hundreds of miles, they’ll need to book at least one night of accommodation and this can be a lot to ask of guests invited to an evening reception only.”  Zoe Lingard,  Weddings by Zoë Lingard

“Don’t make any promises about who will and won’t be invited to your wedding before distributing your invitations. You might find that you lose touch with some people over the course of your planning (e.g. colleagues who move on) but feel obliged to invite them because you mentioned they’d get an invite at the outset.”  Zoe Lingard,  Weddings by Zoë Lingard

“Too many cooks spoil the broth - when arranging the guest list and seating plan we would advise only one person from each side of the family to be involved, you know your guests so with only a small amount of help this should make things a lot easier!” Peggie Anne Savage, Vow Perfections

“Create an A & B list, that way if anyone from the A list declines you can invite someone from the B list. Make sure you order approx. 15 extra invitations to save time. Think about family, friends and work colleagues.” Bernadette Chapman, Dream Occasions

Seating Plan
“A table plan is displayed at the entrance of the Reception  showing  guests to their relevant tables.  At each table a list of  those guests is written onto a pretty tag and attached to each chair with a  ribbon.  Each guest name is highlighted, together with a sentence about each of them, for example: ‘Astrid Tompson, sister in law of the bride – made the flowergirls dresses,  Margareta Johns – old school friend of the bride’ etc’. This creates a starting point for conversation and is a lovely way to introduce guests who are strangers to each other.” Carrie Watkins, Today and Forever

“To ensure the right people can see you on the top table, my tip is to think of each table as a clock face, with 1 o’clock having the best view of the top table and then 4,5 or 6 o’clock (depending on how many guests you have per table) with the worst, as they would have their back to you (ideal place for children!). Number the guests from 1 to 8,10 or 12 and then you can easily identify where they are to sit. This also provides useful information for your venue or caterer as they can readily see where dietary requirements are sat too”  Andrea Swift, Fabulous Day

“Middle is the New Top - long are the days of everyone sticking to the top table being at the top of the room at the wedding breakfast, we find our couples much prefer to feel part of the room with a centred bridal party table, this not only makes them feel like they can mingle more with their guests, it also means no guests feel like they are at the back of the room! Peggie Anne Savage, Vow Perfections

“Start with using an A1 piece of paper and ‘post it’ notes so you can easily move family members around before you finalise your plans.” Kay Carey, Heading Up The Aisle

“Keep an open mind, an innovative seating plan can often be the talking point of the day. The use of escort cards helps to generate people’s interest in the theme and allows for last minute changes to be managed.” Kay Carey, Heading Up The Aisle

“If some tables need to be taken down after dinner to make room for dancing, make sure that you do not seat elderly relatives on the tables that will need to be removed.”  Carrie Watkins, Today and Forever

There’s No Business Like Show Business

Tuesday, April 14th, 2009

What makes a great wedding? The venue, the food, the guests? All of these of course are key ingredients for a wonderful event. But what about the entertainment? On Friday I was invited by Sternberg Clarke, the UK’s leading supplier of entertainment to the corporate and wedding market, to a wonderful evening showcasing some of their amazingly talented performers. Held at Andaz in the heart of the City, we were entertained by singers, musicians and high camp comedy! Favourites of mine were the aptly named Hoop La La, professional circus performers who had us all cheering with delight at their amazing performance. The team at Andaz looked after us superbly and, at the canape reception more entertainment was provided by Organic Jam, background music featuring a Cafe del Mar style DJ playing chill out music together with a live jazz musician.It was a superb evening and a brilliant way of introducing new forms of entertainment. So, think more than a string quartet or a disco and make the party go with a bang!

Lester Gethings owns No. 10 Wedding Design, operating throughout South England.